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Holiday Gift Finds from MMB

Blog OrnamentAre you getting ready for the Holidays??? I just wrote up my list of people to buy for and am getting ready to make my way through and find goodies for all of my friends and family.  I am not doing the Black Friday Shopping (especially not with companies that are opening on Thanksgiving – BLECH), and will be trying to support as many small businesses as possible this holiday season.

As I thought about some of my favorite companies and places I could not wait to buy from, I figured I should share my Holiday Gift Finds here as well. I have talked about some of these companies in the past, and some are pretty new, but these companies are small businesses, most are mom-owned companies, and they are companies that I have interacted with at least once (usually many more times!) in the past. They sell beautiful, unique products. They are my goto’s, and all on my product love-list, and I am sure that you will feel that way too.  If there is a business that you know and love, that would make a great holiday gift, please feel free to list it in the comments below as well!

Now…one more item is not quite ready, but is a must for your holiday shopping list. I have written a children’s book, which will be ready for purchase in early December. I am super (duper) excited about this, and will share the details with you all very soon. Keep your eyes peeled on my website and FaceBook page for more information, including details on how to order!

 

kikibOnan

Before we head too far into the gifts, it is a must to have some cute little Christmas shirts for the kids. I am buying my kid’s shirts from kikibOnan, which can be found both on Etsy and FaceBook. My son picked out the “Truckin from the Tree Farm” ($18) and my daughter will have the “Candy Colored Christmas Present” ($18).

truckin from the tree farm    Candy Colored Christmas Present appliqued tee
While you are on the kikibOnan Etsy site, I highly recommend the reusable snack bags. This is a great packaging idea if you are giving a gift card gift. Why spend the money on a gift bag or wrapping paper? I use these bags for honestly, everything. Snacks, crayons, first aid items…addicted!
plaid reusable snack bag - eco friendly

More than a Cupcake

Tina at More than a Cupcake came up with a great idea for DIY print at home Christmas Tags ($8). I LOVE this idea, because this is what I will be using for all the “Santa” gifts in our house. My super-observant son who was 3 last year said “mommy – you and santa have the same wrapping paper”, so I am totally on my game this year. By using these tags, there is no paper trail and no chance my son will see me reuse tags. There is also no chance I will run out, and have to run to the store on Christmas eve, because I can reprint at home – so darn easy!

Christmas Labels Cards Tags For your personal use

My Sleeping Beauty

Eva creates personalized, unique gifts – such adorable items for any occasion, but my favorites are her Chrismas items! Eva is on Etsy and FaceBook, and is the creator of my son’s favorite holiday decoration, the Christmas Light Present Box ($22.00). She also made me the blog ornament above for me – such a great idea for someone who has their own business, blog, or a milestone.

Lighted Christmas Present Glass Box

 

AM Evangelista Jewelry

For anyone who has been on my site for a while, you know my obsession with Ann Marie’s Jewelry. This woman has major talent. I have already ordered several of her necklaces for my gifts this year. Her necklaces are beautiful, her turnaround is fast, and her packaging is perfect. I love the idea of her key chains for a smaller gift that you need to get as well.  The necklaces vary in price based on the disk size, chain,and any add ons, so I recommend checking out the Etsy site to see what you like! She also has smaller items, such as this key chain ($18)

Grandma Nana Oma Nonna Stamped Sterling Silver Necklace with 4 Birthstone Crystals    High School Sterling Silver Key Ring Key Chain

Chivas Goat Milk Soap and Skin Care

I have been in love with this mother/daughter owned company for years. Every year, Donna and Lauren’s Sweet Nothings goat milk facial cream ($24) and lavender Oatmeal soap ($9.00) is in my stocking. I bought several soaps for my kids teachers last year as well (they are always washing their hands, as you can imagine!), and the teacher said it was her absolute favorite gift. Love! You can find Chivas both at their website or on Facebook.

Goat Milk Facial Creme (Sweet Nothings)   Lavender Oatmeal "Market" Goat Milk Soap

 

Word Couture

Another thing you know about me if you have been on this site is this mom loves her wine:)I first saw Word Couture a couple of years ago at a craft fair. I ordered one for all of my friends that year, and it has been a favorite engagement or “just because” gift ever since.  Love their holiday “Ho Ho Ho” ($25) and their monogram wine bottle ($25).  There are a ton more options for fantastic gift ideas on their website as well. .

Ho Ho Ho!  Snowflakes    Single Letter Mongram

Charles Emerson Designs

Ok, if I usually buy gifts for you, don’t read this paragraph. I am AH-doring this new venture by Erin over Richmond Thrifter. Charles Emerson Designs has some super thrifty, but even more important – super awesome jewelry. You can check out her FaceBook page (which I highly recommend because she often posts pre-sales) and or her Charles Emerson Designs website for her entire line. My favorites are the Clover Necklace ($18), the funky elephant bangle ($15) and the bamboo bangle ($12).

 

 Elephant BangleBamboo Bangle

 Grandpa’s Wooden Toys 

(This is actually a Grandpa and Grandma owned business!)

I am starting to have panic attacks about the amount of plastic toys which will be entering my house come Christmas…plastic noisy toys are the ones that give me some major heart palpitations. My son has received an item from Grandpa’s Wooden Toys every year since he was born. He is a huge fan of the bi-plane ($18) . If your little girl is into the American Girl dolls, there is also a line of furniture, which is perfect for the dolls, but at a better price! Love their table and chair set ($55).

Grandpa's Wooden Toys Bi-Plane Table and Chair Set

Tutu Maria

My little girl LOVES playing dress up (while running around holding a dinosaur and roaring, of course)…and tutus are her favorite. She puts on a tutu, and starts saying “Pretty Mommy, so pretty.” Maria’s Tutus, which can be found on FaceBook are simply precious, and really do make any girl feel like a little princess. The owner is incredibly creative, will make custom orders, and is just an awesome lady! This Christmas shabby chic tutu, which my little one will be sporting, is $18.

Maria

 

Olivia Bloom 

I adore pretty much every item that Neada carries at the Olivia Bloom. You can check out Olivia Bloom products both on her website and her FaceBook page (sales and promos are posted!). If you are shopping for a boy, there are cr-azy sales on her boy line as it is being discontinued. Definitely check it out – the style and quality is just awesome. I actually had tears when I read that the boy line was stopping because there is just NO where to buy stylish boy clothes. Ok…so first, buy the 3D boxing glove tee ($14), which is my son’s favorite, for any little boy on your shopping list. Then…check out the super cute Natasha Cat bag ($15.99). This will be under the tree for my little girl – animals and purses combined…I know it will make her day!

3D Boxing Glove Tee      Natasha Cat Bag

Haymarket Designs 

This page started showing up all over my news feed in FaceBook, and I was instantly drawn to the vibrant colors and fun products. Their website is filled with fabulous treasures and the FaceBook page announces new products, shares deals, and has some fantastic giveaways.  I have never been a fancy phone case ($44) girl, but was totally won over by navy blue, chevron, and a monogram. Her site has tons of options to choose from as well, and would be a great gift!  I also love the beach towels ($55) and love to give gifts that can be used in the summer…its almost like you relive Christmas when you pull it out a couple of months later!

Zig Zag Phone Cases Cross-tee Beach Towel
I hope you like the list above, and that it helps give you a kick-start on your holiday shopping. Can’t wait to hear your feedback, and of course, your ideas as well!

 

Note to readers: kikibOnan, More than a Cupcake, My Sleeping Beauty, AM Evangelista, and the Richmond Thrifter are sponsors of Mastering Mommy Brain. Where I have purchased the items from any store, I am providing my most honest reviews of these products.

Erin - November 15, 2012 - 8:31 am

Honored to have been chosen Dana!!! Thanks so much! LOVE all your picks!!!

Christine - November 15, 2012 - 10:30 am

Thanks for all these awesome suggestions. I love me some easy internet shopping, especially for unique handmade gifts like these.

Tina - November 15, 2012 - 1:32 pm

Thanks so much Dana! You do such an Awesome job! It makes me want to start shopping at some of these small businesses right now for the Holidays! What a great idea! Thanks again :)

Eva - November 15, 2012 - 6:53 pm

Thank you so much Dana! Love the others! And CONGRATS – a children’s book!!!! Can’t wait to read!!!

Ann Marie - November 15, 2012 - 7:01 pm

Thanks for including me among these wonderful and talented people!!! Great ideas for gifts. BTW – Congratulations on the book – VERY EXCITING!!!! I can’t wait to see it!

Tracy Piccuillo - November 16, 2012 - 8:01 am

Dana,
Thank you so much for including our personalized lanterns and Word Couture in your Holiday Gift Finds! We’re honored!

And also thank you for introducing me to these other wonderful products and gifts—there are definitely things here that are on my to-buy list!

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My Site Screw Up – Mommy Brain

MMB Badge

In case you  missed it, yesterday was a big day on MMB – I was the featured blogger on SITS (you can check out the write-up here). Super exciting and nerve-racking. It is one thing to invite family and friends to look at your site, it is another to let on other bloggers and people who know what they are doing so much more than this girl.  Of course – my mommy brain almost made a huge site screw up, and almost affected my big day!

 

So, our alarm went off at 5 am as it does everyday. My husband went off to the shower, and I ran downstairs to put the ice packs in lunch boxes, do a final check on work/lunch bags, get dinner ready in the crock pot…and finally…check out how my blog looked on the SITS page. I pulled up the site, and had a goofy grin on my face because there it was – my site! I then clicked through to my site, and realized, um…the links were not working.

Right. Welcome all of you people to my site, so glad that you can’t even get to my page to see what I have written. AHHHHHHH….fitting, right? I mean, we all know what happened with my BlogHer Mommy Brain Moment - this seems to be what I do.

My brain was still a bit foggy, but all of a sudden, I remembered how last month, I started playing around with the back-end of my site, because I was reading these articles about SEO and how google would find your page better if you changed your permalinks (for my non-blogging friends…the link to the site).

It was a simple click in “settings” to make the change, and I thought would change all links going forward, but I very quickly learned yesterday, nope, it affected every link on my page that was possibly out there. To be honest, my site numbers were a little off the last month. I kept blaming FaceBook and the darn interest groups for a hit to my readership, but no…it was me and my mommy brain.

So, after a quick post on my Connecticut Bloggers page and some googling of solutions while drying my hair, I had 3 minute to make a site fix before I got the kids dressed and ready to walk out the door, I was good to go. All permalinks had been fixed, and anyone visiting the SITS page after 6:30 am was going to see my blog just fine.

 

If any other bloggers get the urge to change to change your permalinks…have no fear, it can be done, safely!

I installed the plugin “Permalink Finder”. It will do a search of your site, and return the best match to the person searching, so they don’t get a “page note found” error. It will also give you a summary of the errors that were found, so you can fix any broken links within your own site. Easy peasy…phew!!!

 

 

Ann Marie - November 14, 2012 - 7:13 pm

Very exciting but very stressful morning you had there – all before 6:30 am!!!!!!!!!!!! ACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sarah - November 14, 2012 - 9:28 pm

I love the name of your blog. :) Mommy brain is always a interesting part to becoming a mommy. :)

I did that once too, changed my permalinks. When I saw all the errors on my Pinterest, then on this other social site I was at, I freaked. lol Oh to have that plugin! That would have been nice!! I am going to get it now, because I know I’ve missed some. :)

Happy Belated SITS Day btw. :)

Andrea - November 15, 2012 - 2:34 pm

Happy Belated SITS day!! I like the post about buying Christmas gifts from small businesses – I was thinking that too! Love your title!

Pamela - November 17, 2012 - 2:35 pm

Oh man, I could just imagine my face if this ever happened to me! I didn’t even know about this, so I’m glad you shared it!
Congratulations on your big SITS day! So happy to have found your blog!! I love finding fellow mommy bloggers and reading about their mommy brain moments! Helps me know I’m not alone!;) haha

Jeanne - November 17, 2012 - 3:09 pm

It’s really scary when something like that happens and you think you blog is all screwed up. I did it once too and almost freaked out!

The BIG SITS Day is here for MMB

For my regular readers…I am excited to share that today is a BIG day here at MMB.  For the last year I have read an amazing site about all things blogging. It has given me guidance, inspiration, and exposure to many awesome bloggers. Whenever I open up SITS, I feel like I have an “aha” moment and quickly jot ideas down in my blogging notebook. Now….they also have featured bloggers, and today is Mastering Mommy Brain’s SITS Day! WHOA!!!

Big old happy dance here in my house…and let’s be thankful it is in behind closed doors, because after seeing my moves in the  Zumba class mirrors recently it is confirmed…EEK, Mama has NO moves…

For those of you who are visiting through SITS, welcome, welcome!!!!

A bit about Mastering Mommy Brain (nicknamed MMB by my early readers)…I had a HUGE desire to create this site because I felt that as a mom, when I would look around I would feel like everyone else looked like they had it together about a million times more than I do. Facebook, Pinterest, the grocery store…there were these perfect moms…and then there was me:) The mom who gets lost in parking lots, screws up house painting jobs, and forgets doctors appointments.

I have tried to develop a site where we can share our mom successes and our challenges, and have some laughs along the way. There are a couple of themed days on the site….

  • Mama’s Manic Mondays: Tips for a busy household and managing life
  • Mommy Brain Wednesdays: Sharing a mid-week laugh either from my life or a reader’s
  • Celebrate Mom Thursdays: Anything MOM – we deserve to take a day to celebrate ourselves, our worries, our hopes, and our dreams                                                                                                              
  •  One for the Freezer, One for the Table Fridays: Recipes that fit busy lives – you can easily make one for a meal today, and freeze the rest to enjoy at a later time
 

I hope that you will join me on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, RSS or through email (link on the right hand side of the page).

 

Thank you again for stopping by!!!

Barbara - November 13, 2012 - 5:56 am

Happy SITS Day! I hope it is absolutely amazing for you!

Andrea @Made Simple and Sweet - November 13, 2012 - 6:59 am

Happy SITS Day!

Erin White - November 13, 2012 - 7:09 am

That’s awesome Dana! Happy for you!!!

Blond Duck - November 13, 2012 - 7:38 am

Happy SITS day!

Amy Kossoff Smith - November 13, 2012 - 7:59 am

YEA!!! Love it!!! What a nice write-up! Very impressed! SITS has some great programs, and love that they featured a superstar that I follow and adore! Congrats! Amy :)

Julie Moore - November 13, 2012 - 8:43 am

Hopping over from SITS! :) Cute idea for a blog! I’m going to enjoying checking it out and adding you. :) I can SO relate! I’m one of those mommies who is a lot like you! ;)

Simplicity Interrupted - November 13, 2012 - 8:52 am

you have a LOT going on! love the design & concept of your blog, as well as the message – there is no perfection! looking forward to reading even more. enjoy your SITS day!

Linda - November 13, 2012 - 8:55 am

Looks like you have a fun site going here. Congrats on being featured!

Sherelle - November 13, 2012 - 9:11 am

Your blog is so cute, and many women can relate to it. I’m so glad you hit that ‘publish’ button.Hope you enjoy your feature today! Stopping by from SITS!

Eva Gallant - November 13, 2012 - 9:19 am

Congrats on your SITS day!!! Enjoy your time in the spotlight. I’m sure there will be lots of bloggy love coming your way.

misssrobin - November 13, 2012 - 9:23 am

Congratulations on your SITS day. I hope it’s a fabulous day for you.

Ari - November 13, 2012 - 9:39 am

Happy SITs day!

Stephanie @ CMTS blog - November 13, 2012 - 9:40 am

Loooooove your site! I am always trying to conquer mommybrain. So far, I am losing ;)

Andi - November 13, 2012 - 9:54 am

Happy SITS Day, I just had mine and had a blast. Your design is very clean and I look forward to exploting!

almostsinglemom - November 13, 2012 - 10:32 am

Happy SITS day, mommy brain SUCKS!

Dani - ATA Girls - November 13, 2012 - 11:23 am

Happy SITS day

Paloma - November 13, 2012 - 11:45 am

Have an awesome SITS Day! Enjoy the spotlight! It’s nice! ;)

Erica K - November 13, 2012 - 12:18 pm

Stopping by. I’m glad to have found you. And I’m glad to find a “normal” mom who isn’t afraid to share her mistakes with the rest of us, as I feel we are all like you but are afraid to admit it. I look forward to your weekly posts. Especially the Friday food one. I’m always looking for meals that are simple and can be frozen for a later date.

Following you on twitter now too.

Kate / Pennello Lane - November 13, 2012 - 12:57 pm

Congratulations on being featured! You have a great looking blog. Enjoy your day!

The Roving Retorter - November 13, 2012 - 1:05 pm

You’re too hard on yourself! Perfection is an illusion. I guarantee there are people who come into contact with you who assume you have it all together!

Kim - November 13, 2012 - 1:06 pm

I love how your site looks! You have done an awesome job designing it!

Lyza @ Chic Shades of Green - November 13, 2012 - 1:07 pm

Happy SITS day! The premise of your blog is really great, it’s nice to find fellow “inadequate” moms. No matter what I neglect, i know that I love my daughter more than anything so it make sit all okay in my book.

Cher @ Designs by Studio C - November 13, 2012 - 1:16 pm

Have a fantastically awesome SITS Day!

Christine - November 13, 2012 - 1:24 pm

Yay! Congratulations!

Kirsten @One Tough Mother - November 13, 2012 - 2:13 pm

I am loving your blog! I am definitely going to be a regular. :) Congrats on your SITS feature today! Now I gotta go – gotta read more of your blog posts ;)

Stephanie - November 13, 2012 - 2:32 pm

Happy Sits Day!

Crystal - November 13, 2012 - 2:50 pm

Happy SITS Day!

be-quoted.com - November 13, 2012 - 3:16 pm

This is such a cute site! Happy SITS day SITStah! I’m on to another one of your posts.

Christina Morley - November 13, 2012 - 3:29 pm

I’m now following your sweet blog with Twitter and FB! Have a great SITS day!

Tina – American mom raising 4 kids in South Africa

Paula - November 13, 2012 - 4:09 pm

Glad to have found your blog! Happy SITS day :)

Elizabeth Rinne - November 13, 2012 - 6:56 pm

Happy SITS day! : — ) Ps. I’m so glad I found your blog, I’m hooked!

With love,
Elizabeth Rinne

Alison - November 13, 2012 - 7:18 pm

Have a great SITS Day, and love the idea of your blog!

Ginny Marie - November 13, 2012 - 9:07 pm

I love the idea of being able to freeze a meal when making dinner! That would make life so much easier! I’ll try to stop back on Friday! Congrats on your SITS day!

OneMommy - November 13, 2012 - 9:16 pm

I used to do a Manic Monday… Love the idea that yours has some tips in it! And I could always use a recipe where I have a meal to freeze for later!

Happy SITS day!

Alexa - November 13, 2012 - 9:39 pm

I LOVE your blog! Love your concept, love your design, LOVE the types of things you share and blog about! Definitely found yourself a new fan and follower! Happy SITS day!!!!!

Melissa @ Fit 'N' Well Mommy - November 14, 2012 - 12:54 am

Happy SITS Day! I am so excited to have found your blog! I have enjoyed reading through your posts and I love your theme days! As a busy mom myself, I can totally relate to Mommy Brian!

admin - November 14, 2012 - 6:00 am

WOW! I am just logging on today as yesterday was a bit of a crazy day. I am simply overwhelmed by your comments and feedback. Thank you all for stopping by and checking out the page. I look forward to checking out your pages as well, and connecting again in the future!

denyse@crazy beautiful life - November 14, 2012 - 11:46 am

Happy SITS Day! You have a great blog and don’t worry I’ve seen myself dance in the mirror as well, not a pretty picture. ;-)

Have a “Crazy Beautiful” day!

Emily @ TheBusyMomsDiet - November 14, 2012 - 3:03 pm

I LOVE your weekly schedule! I am so subscribing…like now. Happy belated SITS Day!

Birthday Parties: Reader Question

birthday parties Mastering Mommy Brain It seems that the invitations for birthday parties for my first grader and preschooler are constantly arriving in our mailbox or in the kids backpacks. While we love to celebrate, it seems like our weekends are overtaken with parties – we often have 2-3 to a weekend. Both of my children’s schools have the rule that if the invitation is given out in school, everyone must be invited. Sometimes we know the children, and sometimes we don’t. How do I say “no” to parties without being an awful mom? I just want my weekends and my down time with my kids back!!! 

 

 

 

 

I received this reader question this week, and could completely relate. With a toddler and a preschooler in school, we struggle with this constantly…my son wants to go to every party that he sees an invitation for.  Sometimes it is possible and we will go to the birthday parties, but there are other times where we have prior plans or where he does not even seem to know the child who the invitation is coming from. I cherish our weekend family time, so to go somewhere which doesn’t make a large impact on my child seems to be a waste. BUT, I also would hate for a child to be so excited about their birthday party, and a limited number of kids show up. What could be worse?? I would never want that to happen to my kids. I also realize that there may come a time where my kids are not invited to things…so do I want them to miss out now?

SO, MMB readers since I was clueless with this question and am trying to find the perfect way to handle the situation in our house, I will turn it over to you. How do you find the right balance in attending children’s birthday parties?

 

If you have a question that you would like to put out to the MMB Community, please feel free to email me at masteringmommybrain@gmail.com or post it to the FaceBook page

Ellie {Musing Momma} - November 12, 2012 - 9:58 pm

I think it is one of those things where the answer is different for each family. For my family, we are pretty selective about which invitations we accept – for the very reasons you mentioned! We always try to say yes if it is a good friend, because in those cases I know my son being there is important to that child. And if our schedule isn’t too busy, we are more inclined yes. But if we have a lot going on or we don’t really know the family, we will usually decline and politely say he won’t be able to make it.

I don’t think it is being a bad parent to make family time a priority. There is no need to feel guilty! :)

Carlo/Carlo At Your Service Productions - November 13, 2012 - 4:45 am

Happy SITS Day to you! Have a great time basking in lots of comment-love today.

Christine - November 13, 2012 - 1:25 pm

Here is a question to piggyback on yours. If you decline because you don’t know who the child is…do you still get the child a gift?

Celebrating Five

I am blessed today to be celebrating five years of marriage to the most amazing guy I know.

Is five years that long? No, but after 2 kids, buying a house, finishing grad school, and so many more life events, it feels milestone-ish over here. I figure that is reason enough to celebrate:)And, more importantly, reason enough to embarrass him and stick this up on the site as well.

So five years filled with love, laughter, excitement, challenges, and so much more. I am grateful to have this guy as my partner through all the craziness that life throws our way. Looking forward to 100 more…(and yes, we know that this is really quite impossible, but why not aim high, right?).

Celebrating Five

 

 I’ve been searching a long time
For someone exactly like you
I’ve been travelling all around the world
Waiting for you to come through.
Someone like you makes it
All worthwhile
Someone like you keeps
me satisfied.

Someone exactly like you.

- Van Morrison, Someone Like you

 

 

Erin - November 10, 2012 - 8:14 am

Happy Anniversary! Those pictures are amazing! You can feel the love! Hope you guys enjoy your day!

Darlynne - November 10, 2012 - 10:14 am

So happy for you both. Beautiful pictures.

Anne - November 12, 2012 - 12:41 pm

Happy Anniversary! It’s funny when I read this I thought “wow, they’ve been married a long time” when it clicked right after that funny enough we’ve been married the same amount of time! (We were a 7/7/07 couple). Congrats on 5 years, and to many many more! Within that time, the Yankees have won a world series and the Giants have won 2 Superbowls. Just sayin’. ;) (And I guess the Red Sox won in 2007 too, but not sure if that was before or after your wedding.)
Congrats again!